Tomorrow is the day planned for the surprise visit to the step-daughter in hopes to encourage her to "Get on the ball" and make some plans for her life! I am gonna need some prayer. Already my hubby and I are having a hard time agreeing on some issues. If we don't have a united front when we speak to her, I know she will see the weak spot and it will cause more problems.
I really get tired of being the "heavy" and being portrayed as the bad guy. Step-moms always end up being the evil one in these situations! I guess that is how I got the nickname of "stepmonster".
The selfishness has to stop. I am tired of seeing a perfectly capable young woman freeloading off of everyone she can get her hands on! She has so much potential. I am so praying that this is a stage she will soon get past and realize it is time to step up and make a life for herself! There is absolutely no reason that she can't get a good job and make the car payment & insurance payment. No reason at all that her mom should continue paying her bills. I refuse to dish out any more money to enable her to pursue a lifestyle with the title of "MOOCHER".
Please keep us in your prayers tomorrow. I am already dreading things so badly I am about to be sick. I really need some good sleep tonight.
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